I have never loved anyone the way I love you. You complete me; your smile rescues me from bad days I have encountered. Everyday I’m with you feels like the first time we became as one. Never will there be any other; you are my sweet, sweet lover. You are delicate like a white rose, beautiful like the autumn sky.
Your touch, your kiss, your skin and just being you is what makes me love you. This is how you made me love you, beautiful you are. You are always there for me I cherish the love we have. No one loves me the way you do, you have made my dreams come true. This is how you made me love you. When you are gone, something goes wrong. My heart aches just for your smile, the rhythm is off beat. My heart is weak because you are not near. You give me life, you are the reason I breathe, and your smile gives me the energy to get through the day. When I’m down you are always around, you give me good love. This is how you made me love you; this is how you made me care for you. This is how you made me love you.
You see things in me I never thought I see; you encourage me to do right. Every night you lay next to me feels so heavenly. You bring out the best in me. I’m blessed because God has made you for me, together we stand strong. Stronger than any love that I’ve ever known, I have grown into a believer of faith. We are soul mates.
Your touch, your kiss, your skin and just being you is what makes me love you. This is how you made me love you, beautiful you are. You are always there for me I cherish the love we have. No one loves me the way you do, you have made my dreams come true. This is how you made me love you. When you are gone, something goes wrong. My heart aches just for your smile, the rhythm is off beat. My heart is weak because you are not near. You give me life, you are the reason I breathe, and your smile gives me the energy to get through the day. When I’m down you are always around, you give me good love. This is how you made me love you; this is how you made me care for you. This is how you made me love you.
Love is what I feel, Love is what I see, and love is what I smell so sweet, so irresistible and yet so kissable. This is how you made me love you. This is why I would give my life for you.
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What are the three biggest mistakes that the newly singles have made and how are they going to avoid them for the making up relationship?
Suddenly, it’s clear to you now. The relationship is over! What are you going to do now? Caution: Don’t complicate your life by beginning to date too soon after a break-up. How soon is “too soon?” That will depend upon the circumstances of the breakup. Rule of thumb: Six months or more. “Or more?” you say. Yes! Six months or more! When you cut your finger, it takes time for the wound to heal. If the sharp edge cuts to the bone, it may take longer. A thorough healing of a broken heart takes time too.
The biggest mistakes that newly singles can make are things that most singles refuse to believe and, as a result, they soon find themselves experiencing the same relationships as in the past. It is an even bigger mistake to not acknowledge that these colossal blunders really are mistakes. Some of you may have made these mistakes more than once.
I know from personal experience that if you will evade these avoidable errors in judgment, ALL of your relationships will work better. The biggest mistake that newly singles make is getting involved with someone else before the hurts of the past have healed. Two closely related mistakes include not taking full responsibility for their share of the problems that caused the breakup in the first place and making sure that those issues are complete before beginning again.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over and over and expecting a different result. Knowing your heart needs healing and refusing to do anything about it doesn’t help prepare you for the next relationship. It only prolongs the agony. How can you avoid these mistakes? By living solo for awhile.
Before you can successfully get involved with and have a “healthy” love relationship with someone else, you must first get involved with yourself! When it comes to analyzing yourself, don’t be an ostrich. Get your head out of the sand and take a loooooong look at what you did that may have contributed to the break-up and promise yourself that you will make some changes “prior” to your next relationship.
The time of real personal growth is when you are alone. Singles should use this time to reflect on the behaviours they did and didn’t like in their former partner. Create a “romantic résumé” that lists their positive points and what you are looking for in your next mate. It’s time to experience how it feels to stand on your own; taking care of you, paying special attention to who you need to become to attract a passionately monogamous, infidelity-free, fun in the bedroom relationship. You must learn to stand alone again before you can again stand together… side by side.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t date, it only means, and that when you decide to date, you must resist the urge to become intimately involved with anyone else too soon. This is easier when you date lots of people. Don’t grab the first one that comes along. Play the field. Make “having FUN” your only priority.
It requires a lot of effort to be in a healthy love relationship with someone else. You don’t need to expend the additional energy it will take to do that AND work on fully recovering from your last relationship at the same time. That’s just not smart. When you strain a muscle, good doctors will insist that you give it a rest if you want it to heal. That’s smart. Give a monogamous, committed relationship with someone else a rest for now.
Broken relationships take time to heal. The relationship I am talking about is the broken relationship you have with yourself. Not only must you know this, you must acknowledge that there is a problem that needs repair before the healing can begin. We seem to drift around, not knowing what to do, blaming our ex, our mother- in-law, the cat, everyone but the real culprit.
If you want to know what the problem is in your relationships, it’s very simple. Look into the mirror. There it is! You must muster the courage to look the problem straight in the eye and declare your independence from it. It’s time to take responsibility for who you are, what you do, how you think, who you date . . . everything.
The most important relationship to you right now is the one you have with you! Rebuilding a relationship with yourself must be your highest priority. This significant first step must occur before you can be who you need to be in another healthy love relationship with someone else. For the time being, spend lots of time working on preparing for love – the love that you will share with someone else in the future.
The problem with moving too quickly to the next relationship is that there needs to be a cooling off period; that time when you begin to look at the real problem and start making some new choices about shedding all of the baggage of the last relationship. Reinvent a healthy relationship with you! Rediscover who you are! Take some time for yourself. Feel the pain. Acknowledge it. Feel it and know that it is only and always your choice to feel that way. Then do something different! In time, as you begin to acknowledge the mistakes you have made in the past and MOST important, accept responsibility for your share of the problem that caused the breakup, the hurts of the past will begin to heal.
If you also make a conscious decision to resolve not to allow those same problems to happen again, you will begin to feel better about yourself and the pain will ease. In time, you will look back and wonder how you could have let something like that happen to you. You will also wonder how you could have allowed yourself to feel the way you feel right now. You will look back in disappointment. You will be proud that you no longer will allow yourself to grovel in self pity and pain like you did in the past.
Part of the healing is acknowledging that there were indeed problems that you were responsible for. Knowing that is not enough. DOING something different is! For now, working on you is the first key to unlocking a future chock full of infinite possibilities. Whatever you want, wants you too. It is now time to STOP blaming someone else for the misery you are creating for yourself. It’s time to forgive them so the hurt will heal. Nothing is unforgivable. That is only and always your choice too.
The hurts won’t heal until you will allow yourself to forgive. I suppose the real question is: Just how long do you want to feel the way you feel right now? If you think that he or she was solely responsible because of what they did or didn’t do, then you are missing the point. It’s time to let go of that and focus on taking full responsibility for the choices that are available to you right now. Blaming others will only and always keep you stuck right where you are.
It will take a new discipline to do this. Can you do it? You must understand that the pain you feel right now is only temporary. Medical science has yet to prove that anyone has ever died from a broken heart. Broken hearts can mend. It takes time and you must do the work. You can do it! And you will do it when the desire to feel better about yourself again becomes stronger than the benefits of holding on to a past that obviously didn’t work. It takes no strength to let go, only courage. Let the healing begin.
Indeed, life is short. Don’t let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex
love partner
during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.
I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.
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“Problems are opportunities in work clothes”. Henry J Kaiser, American industrialist
“I proceed with a courageous and honest analysis of the situation. Then I determine what the worst consequences of my failure could be. After imagining the most disastrous consequences that could result, I resign myself to accept them in case it becomes necessary. From that moment on, I concentrate all my time and energy to looking for ways that could alleviate the consequences which, mentally, I have already accepted”. Dale Carnegie, American orator
Problems: You either love ‘em or hate ‘em. For some they represent a challenge, something from which to learn. For others problems are the beginning of the end, a reason to ‘down tools’ for the day. This is what distinguishes winners from losers, business successes from failures.
Positive thinkers act in a similar way to Carnegie, namely recognising that a problem exists, understanding the possible consequences, anticipating the worst possible scenario, and formulating their objectives on this.
Recognising That a Problem Exists
All problems share one characteristic. All are deviations from the norm. For example, where your average/anticipated sales during a given period are £200, you have a potential problem where actual sales are significantly less.
All successful businesses set standards. The first step towards solving problems presupposes that you have determined measurable standards against which to measure progress and performance. From this, you periodically compare actual against projected performance. This is best achieved as a team exercise, including management and staff, as appropriate.
Analysing the Problem: Defining its Scope
Here you are locating and determining the extent of your problem, deciding whether it has short-term or long-term consequences. A well-defined problem is almost solved and frequently the solution is obvious. A useful tip is to draw up a ‘Problem Analysis Worksheet’, including vertical columns where aspects of the problem can be recorded: what the problem is, who was responsible for it, when it occurred, what its consequences might be, what the ideal situation would be (your objectives), how serious the problem is, and so on. Having considered all aspects of the problem, as a team, the group then lists possible solutions.
Focus on Objectives: Classify these as ‘Essential’ or ‘Desirable’
Your objectives are results you want to achieve, your ideal situation. These should be listed as ‘essential’ or ‘desirable’.
Compare Suggested Solutions against Objectives
Again, preferably as a team, all solutions are considered in terms of how successful they might be at achieving your objectives, primarily ‘essentials’.
Choose a Tentative Solution from Your List
One potential solution will usually reveal itself as most suitable for achieving your objectives. This is the one you should initiate in the first instance.
Put the Solution into Practice and Monitor the Consequences
Once initiated, the consequences must be monitored and adverse occurrences identified and controlled. Some changes might be necessary, especially for unexpected events. Alternatively, and only as a last resort, you may find you have to choose another from your list of possible solutions. Whatever happens, you will almost certainly have your problem under control, maybe not solved, but manageable.
Alternative Problem-Solving
An extremely useful tip from the late Joe Karbo, American motivational writer and entrepreneur, is to delegate the problem. To your computer! Not the Amstrad, Apple or Atari; this computer is far more complex, infinitely more powerful. The computer Karbo and others like him refer to is your unconscious computer – your mind!
According to many psychologists and motivational gurus, we use only a tiny proportion of our U/Cs. Programming the U/C to solve your problem is easy, all you have to do is ask. This is what you do:
Write the problem down at the top of a clean sheet of paper. Section the remainder of the page into two vertical columns.
Try to solve the problem yourself. On the left-hand side, write down all possible ways to solve your problem. Include reasons. On the other side, list the potential drawbacks of each considered solution.
Ask your U/C to choose the best solution from those listed or to come up with another. This might sound silly, but believe me it isn’t. Karbo tells readers to think of your U/C as ‘another person, an employee or assistant’. We must tell that other person ‘I want the answer to this problem by tomorrow morning … or four o’clock this afternoon’. Then you just forget it, go to sleep or turn to doing something else.
Surely enough, just as that name you’ve struggled to remember will suddenly come to you long after you’ve given up trying, your U/C will provide the answer you need. Try it, it works.
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