I love You!

When was the last time you actually called her up? When was the last time you asked her out and bought her a fancy or a cute gift? Do you recall?

I believe, or so, that guys have this mentality of being the ‘prince charming’ guy during the courting part in a relationship. You get fancy flowers, roses or what and especially during Valentines day. On your first months of relationship it’s like there’s no tomorrow of being in love and that you can’t stand a moment with him or her.

But as it goes and pass by – things turn around. In the long run, there will be less calls, less love letters (some even, none) and no gifts. It’s okay because we can’t always afford all those stuff but maybe, from time to time try to make your girl happy with simple things that you know she’d love. Curious how? Well, if you really know her that much – you won’t have to ask.

Try to spend more time with her and know her more than what you know, girls are more than meets the eye and in fact any person is actually.

And you say, I do.

Everybody dreams of their wedding day to be something special – other than the fact that the day itself is “special”. Some want fancy gowns, fancy decorations and on reception they want it outstanding to their visitors. Then some want their favorite songs played, or maybe some unforgettable song that brought them together. They want it memorable to put pictures on their album, and to finally say, they are finally one.

I think anybody wants that, unless you’re man/woman hater or something. Even I want that. Then for others they also want to make sure their honeymoon will be the best of all the rest. Some take time in choosing a great place to stay in such as with the vegas wedding hotel packages which is one great offer for those who are planning to get married anytime soon. It will be fun in Vegas plus this moment will be unforgettable, you’re together in one awesome place! Could anything be better than that above all?

So, take your pick by visiting the website. Also, just remember that what makes the wedding day special is if you two love each other deeply. After all, your wedding day is a dream come true to both of you. God bless!

Remote Control Car Wedding Proposal

What you need:

• Remote controller car
• The Ring
• A love letter (Optional)

1. Simply write on your love letter from the depts of your heart what you want to tell her. Put in your mind that it must be from your heart, doesn’t need to be so perfect. Think of the right words that will make her feel so different – lucky.

2. Choose a remote control car that has something you can let hold your letter, and the ring you will give her. Choose the one that is easy to control of course.

3. Choose a ring you know she will like, it doesn’t have to be expensive. It can be simple, it can be plain – whatever it is I’m sure she’ll love that.

4. Pick a nice time to go over her office/school. It would be cool if you know there are many people around because girls like it that way.

5. Now, while your remote control car has the ring (preferably inside a box, on the remote control car) and the letter, control it to go to her class/office room. You can follow the remote control car steps away, or you can ask for help from a friend to direct to you the right directions while you move the car.

Appear once she have read it, in front of the crowd <3

and then say the right words, “Will You Marry Me?”

*You can also do this in giving a give or a love letter (purely) just don’t overdo it. Come up with another idea the next time! You can also send a rose with this one, tha’d be cute!

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I think this was from a movie, but I can’t recall its title. Anyway, don’t you think this would be so sweet?

So, what do you think?

1. You feel comfortable when you’re with that person

If you’re already going out with the person, you’re surely close to him or her. But it’s something different if you can tell anything to this person, from problems to secret up to your deepest untold stories. And you know he or she understands even without asking, and you know it’s okay to tell.

2. You love being with that person

Despite arguments, misunderstandings and all the troubles – you still stick with that person. Some say it’s foolish, but if you both care for your relationship and you both want it to be stronger that’s something else and it’s called love.

3. You forgive, you accept

You learn to accept that person’s flaws and his weaknesses – even if you hate that fact. You learn to forgive at times he or she cannot fulfill a promise even if you know it hurts you in a way. You learn to understand.

4. You don’t leave, you stay.

Even if there are so many trials, challenges and tests for the two of you – you fight. You know to yourself you can go on, together, no matter what and you agree on that.

5. You simply care

You get worried if he or she is okay, if she has eaten already or if she’s home. You’re worried that you always want them to be alright.

Well, being in love has a lot of signs. Some even say it just happens without you knowing it. Whatever that is, being in love is one of the greatest gift God has given and is continuously giving. If you aren’t in love with someone, why not just love the people around you – friends and your family.

Happy Birthday to my Angel

This is to my angel. The reason why I love angels, and everything with angels. I’m no angel, but he considers me as one. And I consider him one. Wow, look at the picture it’s as old as you are! SO OLD! Bwahah! JK. I love you so much honey, angel, quail egg, Ryuji, mallows, sweetheart – [insert mushy name here]

I don’t have any gift yet. Because I couldn’t withdraw earlier, hence I am moneyless. But gifts shouldn’t be expensive anyway right? Am I not enough for a gift? I’ll be off to buy a gift wrapper and send myself to you – IKR, I’m corny. And besides I’m already yours.

I know that’s not enough though. If only I can give the world to you

God bless and have a happy birthday, please don’t kill me for letting the world know.

I want them to greet you

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OT: New layout for I love You Angel!:) I worked so hard on this one that I even studied jquery ui effects -

I hope you like it. As usual, it’s pink. Because pink is love <3 I’ll be posting more here~ I hope.

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And all graphics are made by me for the first time <3 Hohohoho! K, have a happy day everyone!

Love love love

–Nadine-

Love appears as relationship but begins in deep solitude. Love expresses as relating but its source is not in relating, its source is in meditating. When you are absolutely happy in your aloneness, when the other is not a need, it is then that you are capable of love. If the other is your need, you can only exploit, manipulate, dominate but cannot love.

Because you depend on the other, possessiveness arises – out of fear. “Who knows? The other is with me today; tomorrow he may not be with me. Who knows about the next moment?” Your woman may have left you, your children may grow up and be gone, your husband might desert you. Who knows what the next moment may bring? Out of that fear of the future, you become very possessive. You create bondage around the person you think you love.

But love cannot create a prison. If love creates a prison, then what is left for hatred to do? Love brings freedom – love gives freedom. It is non-possessiveness. But that is possible only if you have known a totally different quality of love, one not of need but of sharing.

Love is sharing of overflowing joy. You are too full of joy, you cannot contain it, you have to share it. Then there is poetry and then there is something tremendously beautiful which is not of this world, something that comes from the beyond.

Often I say, learn the art of love. What I really mean is: learn the art of removing all that hinders love. It is a negative process. It is like digging a well – you go on removing layers of earth, stones, rocks and then suddenly there is water. The water that was always there as an undercurrent. When you remove all barriers, the water is available. So with love. Love is the undercurrent of your being. It is flowing, but there are many rocks, much earth to be removed. That’s what I mean when I say: learn the art of love. It is really not learning love but un-learning the ways of un-love.

Infatuation is the name

In the same vein, love at first sight is an excuse often trotted by people who either don’t know, or don’t want to admit that the pull of a sexual attraction can be that intense. This may well sum up the beliefs of most modern lovers. “I used to believe that love at first sight isn’t such a sham as it is made out to be. His name was Jack and the first time I saw him, I was completely charmed. His good looks had an almost instantaneous magical effect on me. He was my neighbour’s cousin and I used to eagerly await birthdays and anniversary functions in the neighbourhood in the hope of seeing him. In fact, on such occasions, I made sure I wore a short skirt or something sexy. I would make special efforts to speak in my accented english in front of him until one day I met another guy whom I knew for six months and got involved with him. Jack was out of my mind and my life. It’s then I realised that love had a lot more to it than just physical attraction.

For many, love at first sight is just another way of saying infatuation. “I don’t think there is any such thing as love at first sight. It’s infatuation colour-coated as love. It’s purely physical in nature. Love should not be dishonoured by comparing it with something as amorous desire,” adds MNC executive Jess Jones.

There are others who also believe that it’s an immature emotion felt by young teenagers. A guy may have the best looks in the world but may turn out to be the biggest cheater too. Eventually one realises the value of compatibility, steadiness, understanding and commitment in sustaining a relationship. You can’t predict that a guy will share these with you at the first sight.

’tis true love

For every person who doesn’t believe in this, there are others who will defend love at first sight with a dogged determination. They argue that physical attraction is the first step to any relationship. It could be the person’s face, gait, hair or even butt that first attracts you to him/her. This is something called intution. “When I saw my girlfriend for the first time in school, I became completely lost in her eyes. She was new in the school and had an innocent look about her. I could feel my heart flutter with joy every time I saw her. There was an instant emotional connection. Although I couln’t gather the strength to confess my feelings to her till much later, my love withstood the vagaries of time. As a friend and a classmate, I was well aware of her ongoing affairs but somewhere I still had the embers of hope burning bright. It was three years of passing out school, that I confessed my feelings to her, that too with the help of her best friend. She was hesitant initially but today we are a happy couple. It was truly love at first sight for me”, says graphic designer Arun Vohra.

There can be love at first sight but the chances of success are as high or poor as the people involved in it. My brother met my sister-in-law and within three months they were married. I too married my husband in a similar fashion,” adds model Jessica Simons.

You may call it the stroke of luck or destiny, the truth is there are many relationships that grew out of the so-called Cupid that struck at first sight as many as there are others that haven’t worked out.

What’s the difference between lust and true love?

- Lust actually occurs when you first meet someone and feel a special connection. It is based on sexual chemistry and is accompanied by a rapid heartbeat, sweaty palms and, for an unfortunate few drooling. It is more like an infatuation than enduring love. It could stem from both physical and a mental attraction.

- The main difference between lust and love is that lust often happens when there is little chance of forming a relationship. Lust is safe way to explore your feelings for someone who you may think is unattainable. This can closely resemble love, and if your feelings don’t fizzle after you’ve snagged the object of them, then they can lead to love.

It is an expression of affection in romantic relationships that come from within the two conjugal lovers. Love can be expressed in thousands of ways but nobody can say which one is the most satisfactory for them.

You must have seen pairs of lovers sitting in a cozy pasture at your nearby park and making love for hours together leaving all the prosaic things behind. Sometimes, they are seen to play with each other’s private parts or are seen in a kissing posture. This is nothing new to this world of romantic love; the tradition has been going on since the origin of human race. But, can any couple truly claim that they are fully satisfied with their activities in parks under the greenwood tree? No!! They would prefer to have more sexual play to meet their desire. This urge for making love cannot be satisfied if it is not free from condition.

Even after a passionate intercourse, a couple may not be satisfied fully to open their heart for love; on the other hand, a single kiss can bring saturated love in your life. It is the psychology of lovers that determine the state of satisfaction…true love is boundless, free from all ethics of life; it can neither be restricted through any chain of conditions nor can be replaced by any earthly substance.

A married life is intended to bring happiness through love, emotions and feelings for each other. If there lays no emotion, sense of satisfaction and earnest eagerness to make love – nothing can bring peace, harmony and certainty in married life. It is quite obvious that after getting married, every couple would like to explore more fun through sex; but the common experience is altogether different. It is often found that instead of enjoyment, they are leading a hectic life full of conditions that revolves around ‘give and take policy’. Love is not love when conditions restrict normalcy of life. Take the incident for granted – a young boy to satisfy his urge for making love goes to a prostitute and does what is expected… keeping aside true love from her and as soon as the game is over he would have to stretch his hand for paying a lump some amount.

Relationship between the boy and the prostitute is too fragile to stay more than one or two hours. In this case, sex can be bought in exchange of money but cannot love. Marriage, though an institution, seems like a relationship between a truant boy and a prostitute, if it is not bounded by unconditional love. Faith, complacency and satisfaction are key words that can bring peace and harmony in any married couple, not mere sex. On the other hand sex is as important as the heart beats of life. Without sex life seems to be barren tract of land. This is why unconditional love is the primal force behind any strong relationships, especially for marriage.

The society is getting complicated every day and the relationships between human beings are no exception. Extra-marital affair is very common nowadays; but that relationship should also be cemented with unconditional love, otherwise the fun that you are looking for would not come to you. There is always a set of theory that rover around human mind in order to crave for any object that is beyond their reach. Extra marital affair is increasing like anything else. Unlike any other person, you would probably think of enjoying the body of other’s wife without letting know her husband.

This relationship would stay as long you crave and it stands on a definite cause. Suppose, both of you want to keep this relationship only because of having sex or to play with the private organs of each other; in such cases, the love that you possess for that lady or vice versa is controlled by conditions i.e. sex and nothing else. If there were true love in between two souls of you, both of you would feel for each other. Otherwise, it would again become just like the relationship of a young boy and prostitute. ‘Give and take policy’ can be applicable to deal with customers, but would never fruitful for a matured love affair. Love is devoid of any expectation; it does not demand anything from life. Only proper mentality and mindset is required.

The term ‘unconditional love’ should also be there in between two gays or lesbians. Preferences may alter depending on people; but unconditional love is static in every true relationship. It is the basis of any true association; it asks for trust, faith and friendship of two different souls. Unconditional love is ideal love, which brings peace, harmony, satisfaction and all the positive emotional feelings in life. It is difficult to follow the true paths of unconditional love in the mire of mundane life, but the fruits of unconditional love bring forth true sense to live on the breast of this mother earth.

One who can see the fine difference between these two statements is the only true Lover of God. By nature, every one is after love, but only true saints and true servants of God have really experienced the awareness of Divine Love. There are two kinds of love: spiritual and sensual. The worldly, as well as those who seek God, are all within the field of physical or sensual pleasures until they realize God.

Anytime an action or emotion partially or wholly involves anything that is in the realm of the ever changing Prakriti, such as bodies, organs, senses, pranas, the mind, intellect or ego, it is considered a physical or sensual pleasure. Such pleasures must keep changing and come to an end, which results in misery. In the devotional paths, a devotee ultimately becomes Love where duality exists no more. Radha is Krishna or Krishna is Radha, but these two identities cannot exist simultaneously. Such is the ultimate nature of Love. The aspirant who prefers to use the path of discrimination ultimately experiences self-realization where Love alone remains.

When we speak of Love, we are talking about the true ultimate Love that depends on no objects, persons, circumstances, time, place, events or reasons because all those must constantly change and come to an end. Such a finite love is no good for a person seeking Eternal Love, without which one will never find eternal peace. We, being sparks of that Love, cannot be pleased with anything less than that Supreme Love.

Love never bargains, trades or expects. Love never complains, never demands, and never hopes. Love never accepts anything less than Love, and therefore, never lowers itself to physical, mental or intellectual pleasures. Love cannot be measured, imagined, argued about or logically arrived at. Only full faith and complete surrender to the will of Love enables us to totally dissolve our ego and merge into this ocean of love.

As Brihadaranyakam Upanishad says, “Verily, it is not for the sake of the body of a wife that a wife is dear, but for the sake of the Love or Self (Atman) in her that the wife is dear.” This statement also applies to husband, sons, wealth, name and fame, gods, creatures and all creation. To experience true Love is the goal of all of the Yogas presented in the Gita. A beautiful experience awaits all of us only if we will listen, practice, meditate and absolve ourselves as directed by Mother Gita.

1. “Only when we give joyfully, without hesitation or thought of gain, can we truly know what love means.” ~ Leo Buscaglia

2. “Love builds bridges where there are none.” ~ R. H. Delaney

3. “Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.” ~ Comte DeBussy-Rabutin

4. “Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house, you can never tell.” ~ Joan Crawford

5. “When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.” ~ Elizabeth Bowen

6. “Love is too strong a word to say it too early, but it has too beautiful a meaning to say it too late.” ~ Kurt Cornish

7. “What the world really needs is more love and less paperwork.” ~ Pearl Bailey

8. “Love is the only gold.” ~ Alfred, Lord Tennyson

9. “LOVE: The irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.” ~ Mark Twain

10. “Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest that God can’t help but smile on it.” ~ Josh Billings

11. “I don’t want to live– I want to love first, And live incidentally.” ~ Zelda Fitzgerald,

12. “Love is like an hourglass with the heart filling up as the brain empties.” ~ Jules Renard

13. “Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle.” ~ Crystal Middlemas

14. “Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” ~ Franklin P. Jones

15. “Love is the wisdom of the fool and the folly of the wise.” ~ Samuel Johnson

16. “It is with true love as it is with ghosts; everyone talks about it, but few have seen it.” ~ Francois De La Rochefoucauld

17. “If only one could tell true love from false love as one can tell mushrooms from toadstools.” ~ Katherine Mansfield

18. “Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.” ~ H. L. Mencken

19. “Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love” ~Albert Einstein

20. “Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.” ~ Diane Ackerman

Who says cute love quotes have to be cheesy? These twenty love quotes prove otherwise. The next time you find an anti-romantic in need of romantic inspiration, share these cute love quotes with them and prove that love is worth pursuing!