Aug 07 '10 Personal and Leadership Development Through Relationship Building

The fundamental characteristics of personal and leadership development stem from the understanding of ethics, honesty and sincerity. Identifying and embellishing on the proactive behavior models of integrity and the commitment of Relationship building is at the core of starting on the positive track of a relationship. Before one can become a leader one must work on the self development process. Though the self development process is a lifelong journey of learning it is important to keep in mind the process of taking action on the self improvement models in personal distinctive behavior. Conveying the message of trust in relationship building with business associates, friends, relatives or social networking groups is at the very center of relationship building. Being cognizant of factors that have exploiting tendencies are relationship variables that necessitate discussion with all parties of interest.

 If relationship building were in the field of law it would be within the study of contracts rather than in Torts. As relationship building calls for many; verbs, nouns and pronouns that are so often seen in the same language category as in contracts; such as: agreement, acceptance a breach and understanding of an acceptance. In a strong relationship these elements require the bonding effects of an agreed upon contract with an acceptance.  In relationship building the elements of interest typically drive the relationship. There is the concept of appreciation and the value element of a relationship which seeks for the outcome of mutual interest with mutual respect for all parties involved in a relationship.

Leadership comes in to play when the personal aspects of a behavior mode go from personal development to leadership development; always coming in mind that the intended outcome is to establish a lasting relationship. Impairment of personal and professional judgment is perhaps the most complex variable in human behavior. It requires understanding, patience and a sincere interactive dialogue between individuals for the purpose of relationship problems solving models which lead to productive prudent and appreciative relationship outcomes.  The primary and central point in the personal and leadership relationships – need. Needs and meeting the needs of peoples desire will be what truly drives a relationship. Without need relationship is practically non-existent.