Silly of me who thought my boyfriend was actually ignoring me when the real reason was – his phone got messed again! But anyway, this led me to googling “What to do when he ignores you” because I was that bored, and I wanted to forget about being sad lol. So, what is recommended for you to do if he is ignoring you?
1. Ignore him too
They say it would be stupid to do this, but it actually works. You see reason why he must be ignoring you is because you’re too much and some guys are like this. You’re lucky if you find a guy who wants to be with all the time for a very long time. After all, people need space. If you’re used to having him around, it shouldn’t be like that – try to keep yourself busy with other things to forget about how much you miss him. What it does is it actually makes him miss you too.
2. Be with your friends
Maybe, if he’s too busy ignoring you or doing other stuff it’s your chance to meet up with your girl friends. Admit it or not, some girls, when in a relationship tends to lose contact with her friends especially if the guy doesn’t like her friends that much – if you know what I mean
3. Stop thinking, stop nagging
If he or she stops messaging you, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. Who knows? Maybe there’s a reason. It’s not always that he’s seeing another woman. Maybe he is just pure busy with work. Maybe he is sleeping, maybe he’s with some friends. If you keep on messaging him it would pester him. If you find that he doesn’t answer much with your texts it means you should leave him alone for awhile. Let him answer on his own, do not push him. Why worry all the time, he should be the one worried ;P
So much for love posts, this might be also my last blog post about love. I might switch this blog into another kind of blog. A whatever blog! Haha. Anyway, that’s all for now. I finally have something to post here
Are you familiar with Sara Bareilles’ “Love Song”? Hearing its title at first will make you think it is a love song. But actually, it’s not. In fact, it’s about someone making someone writing a love song involuntarily (I suppose Sara Bareilles was referring to herself) However, if you listen to it very well it has an even deeper meaning.
If you analyze, it some how relates to real love. Some people tend to be controlling, unfair and sometimes they forget that they are individuals who have feelings. They tend to hurt their love ones again and again. It’s really sad. The song is simply saying, “you can’t make me love you by doing nothing and by not doing anything for me”.
You can’t just ask for love, you need to give some and not just take it. A relationship needs give and take process, right? Not just taking!
When was the last time you actually called her up? When was the last time you asked her out and bought her a fancy or a cute gift? Do you recall?
I believe, or so, that guys have this mentality of being the ‘prince charming’ guy during the courting part in a relationship. You get fancy flowers, roses or what and especially during Valentines day. On your first months of relationship it’s like there’s no tomorrow of being in love and that you can’t stand a moment with him or her.
But as it goes and pass by – things turn around. In the long run, there will be less calls, less love letters (some even, none) and no gifts. It’s okay because we can’t always afford all those stuff but maybe, from time to time try to make your girl happy with simple things that you know she’d love. Curious how? Well, if you really know her that much – you won’t have to ask.
Try to spend more time with her and know her more than what you know, girls are more than meets the eye and in fact any person is actually.