Are you familiar with Sara Bareilles’ “Love Song”? Hearing its title at first will make you think it is a love song. But actually, it’s not. In fact, it’s about someone making someone writing a love song involuntarily (I suppose Sara Bareilles was referring to herself) However, if you listen to it very well it has an even deeper meaning.
If you analyze, it some how relates to real love. Some people tend to be controlling, unfair and sometimes they forget that they are individuals who have feelings. They tend to hurt their love ones again and again. It’s really sad. The song is simply saying, “you can’t make me love you by doing nothing and by not doing anything for me”.
You can’t just ask for love, you need to give some and not just take it. A relationship needs give and take process, right? Not just taking!
When was the last time you actually called her up? When was the last time you asked her out and bought her a fancy or a cute gift? Do you recall?
I believe, or so, that guys have this mentality of being the ‘prince charming’ guy during the courting part in a relationship. You get fancy flowers, roses or what and especially during Valentines day. On your first months of relationship it’s like there’s no tomorrow of being in love and that you can’t stand a moment with him or her.
But as it goes and pass by – things turn around. In the long run, there will be less calls, less love letters (some even, none) and no gifts. It’s okay because we can’t always afford all those stuff but maybe, from time to time try to make your girl happy with simple things that you know she’d love. Curious how? Well, if you really know her that much – you won’t have to ask.
Try to spend more time with her and know her more than what you know, girls are more than meets the eye and in fact any person is actually.
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