I’m a Love Gratitude Magnet!

July 30th, 2010

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Let’s celebrate our connection with all our family and friends. Why not make a habit of doing this all year long and not just on the holidays? Let’s extend our Love in ways that are authentic and genuine. It’s all about becoming a Love gratitude magnet, simple yet profound! Warning! This will require a good dose of vulnerability! However, it will catapult us into the experience of how giving and receiving are the same thing! A valuable lesson, don’t you think? 

When we get that giving and receiving are identical, life is simplified. Now keep in mind I did not say easy, I said simplified. This choice between oneness and separation will require diligence and vigilance. In essence whatever we choose will be mirrored back to us since we are all one whether we like it or not. We can resist truth all we want but ultimately what we project or give to someone will be reflected back at us as we attract the vibration of the very thing we gave right back at us. When we give something other than Love to someone or something I call it “projection masturbation.” Whatever we project we are actively doing to ourselves. Separation is believing that we can give and receive differently since we are all unique and different. This is an illusion so get over it, you are not special! Extending Love equals receiving Love. It’s that simple. 

Many of you might be saying at this point that your experience of extending Love is not the same as mine. That may be true of the conditional special love of form, but not the unconditional universal Love of Spirit. True Love has no opposite, it is all encompassing, and it is oneness! Once again, simple but not necessarily easy. 

The Divine energy of Spirit represents the collective experience of Love. Gratitude and Love is the magnet that attracts abundance into all areas of our lives as the Goddesses and Gods incarnate that we are. The power of Love is attracted to us by realizing the Love that we are and extending Love outward to everyone and everything. This is the true Love gratitude magnet! It always works, for in the Spirit realm of singularity, duality does not exist, thus there is only Love because there are no opposites in singularity. The essence of Love reminds us of the oneness that we all are. When we tap into our true selves, we are the universal experience of Love. When we are tuned into the frequency of Love anything is possible upon the stage of life. 

So why not be a Love gratitude magnet and party down this Thanksgiving! It’s time to have fun and let everyone in on the REAL secret! How do I do that you might ask? By extending Love to everyone and everything, including yourself! It’s REALLY that simple, honest! Let your loved ones and friends how important they are to you. Tell them you Love them and are grateful that they are in your lives. Be vulnerable from a place of authenticity, power and invulnerability. The paradox of truth is this: our vulnerability is our human intimacy connection carburetor that leads us back to the invulnerable Love that we all are. Have a Grateful Happy and Abundant Thanksgiving All Years Long! 

Rusty Stewart is a Quantum Leap Life Coach using Law of Attraction and Manifestation Principles. He is also an Unwavering Conscious Heart relationship coach, incorporating Harville Hendrick?s Imago and David Deida?s relationship stages work. As a psychotherapist in private practice, he utilizes an integrated energy approach to healing including Heart Centered Hypnotherapy, breathwork, reiki, and shamanic journeying. He also specializes in alternatives to traditional addictions recovery and designs and facilitates workshops, groups, and healer certifications. Rusty has a Ph.D. in Psychoeducational Processes and Group Dynamics and is an adjunct professor at several universities as well.

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Having an Open Relationship

July 30th, 2010

Are you ready to have an open relationship?

Do know what it will ask of you emotionally to have an open relationship?

In many open relationships the first relationship is the primary and other relationships evolves around it.

Family feelings

For many couple who have an open relationship does not feel threaten because they hold on to a family life where none of their friends or family may know about their sexual life.

The other people who are lovers most of the time in an open relationship do not live with the couple.

Who are you pleasing

Having an open relationship is not for everyone because not many people believe it is good for the couple.

Not everyone thinks that it is morally good.

Who are you pleasing when you decide to have an open relationship yourself, your partner or your family tradition?

Emotionally comfortable

If you do not feel that you will be jealous seeing your partner with another person and that you will be emotionally comfortable then your chance of success in an open relationship is higher than most people.

Secondary relationships which are relationships outside of the marriage sometimes are not so clear although you may have rules or agreements because people have conflicts and their emotions cannot be control about who to fall in love with.

Demand

Having an open relationship may demand from you to be more flexible and open to different people’s vibrations and needs which may not be the same as yours.

It may ask of you to do thing that you never did, it may ask of you to hold back on your emotions and not allow yourself to get too involve in case you fall in love with another.

It may ask of you to get along and work as a team and not the primary person in the relationship.

Rules

For some people who get into an open relationship create rules meaning they will go as a couple only and they may agree to have one couple at a time or more than one.

They may also agree to no contact outside the agreed place they meet as a couple.

Others agree to have an open relationship as a single person and agree to not talk about their other relationships outside of the home.
Their partners may know about the other relationships and they both agree to have rules so that things are clear.

Feeling secure

If feeling secure in a relationship is your number one priority then an open relationship maybe too confronting for you if sharing your partner is difficult for you.

Freedom is important

If freedom is important to you and commitment to one person may make you feel tie down then having an open relationship you may consider much easier.

Your life style

There are many different types of open relationship and some may not fit with your beliefs and your life style knowing yourself and your need can give you more insights to what is best for you.

Part of your needs can be the feeling of honesty, the desire for privacy or not sharing with a group and to have your partners share the same thinking.

Conclusion : Having an open relationship as a life style is not for everyone and there are many things to considered before entering into this way of living.

The author grants full reprint rights to this article. You may reprint and electronically distribute this article so long as its contents remain unchanged, and the author’s byline remains in place. Francis is the owner of http://trans-formers.com if you want more information on free relationship advice in your life you can find at:http://www.trans-formers.com/free-relationship-advice.html

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Love yourself

July 30th, 2010

The nature of this universe is constant change, movement, growth and expansion. If anything stays stagnant for a little while it will be liberated from that stagnation as soon as possible. It is the inherent nature of life to move, deepen, and expand in consciousness.

 

Same with love or appreciation. The love that comes from people around us is going to change, grow, transform, and disappear. Either in two weeks, two years, or 95 years, it is going to change, and we all know that. That’s why there is so much contraction around the experience of love. We know that sooner or later it is going to change.

 

Yet, by contracting in fear around the feeling of love we limit its full beauty. That’s one reason why the experience of love causes suffering to many people: they might have a wonderful relationship but they are no allowing themselves to enjpoy it fully because they are afraid to loose it in the future. Or, they hold on to a wonderful past experience, and don’t know how to welcome the new experience that wants to happen in this moment.

 

One thing that does no change is the love and fulfillment that lives in the core of our being. It is important to learn to access it so we can develop a capacity to live freely, with no boundaries, attachments, or fear.

One of the first things to remember is that who ever appears to be a giver of love is just a trigger of love. Read it again: who ever appears to be a giver of love is actually a trigger of love. This feeling of love is inside of us already. It’s not something that the other person gives, or creates for us.

 

This feeling of love is always deep inside of us. That’s the only reason why it can be triggered. Otherwise, how could they bring to the surface something that is not there in the first place?

 

The person who seems to be the giver of love, pleasure or ease, is simply a perfect key for unlocking the door of our heart. Yet, we have this key too! We have the key and we are the door. What a perfect combination, yet so many are not aware of it. If we depend on another person to give us love, we will sooner or later find ourselves unsatisfied and suffering. Their needs at one point will conflict our needs and they won’t be able to please us in a way that would open the door of satisfaction.

The point is, there is no need to look forever lasting and fulfilling love from outside of ourselves. The love that comes from anywhere else but our own inner heart is limited. It has its boundaries. It appears, and it disappears.

 

The love that blooms from within is limitless. The love that permeates from our inner being is eternal; it always meets all our needs. It holds us forever unconditionally, never condemning or judging us. It’s always here for us.

In every single moment we are the perfect key for that love. There is nothing specific needed to trigger that opening, no word, no nice gesture, no perfect health, no special experience is needed. The key is in the willingness to stop everything that believes love is somewhere else but here.

They key is in remembering that we are all that we need. We can simply rest in peace and allow whatever unfolds from that. This is a true experience of fulfillment. Everything else is based on the fear that we don’t have it or we are not good enough to be it.

The truth is that we are the source of all goodness.
We have the power to stop the thoughts that claim otherwise.
We have the capacity to receive the fullness of our inner being.
We are love in its entirety and we can feel it anytime we want to.
No matter what – we can love ourselves. We were created to love ourselves. We were born to meet ourselves as we truly are.

When we receive from within, receiving through outer expressions and appearances becomes effortless. We let them come and go freely. We welcome all movements of life. A nice gesture is fine, and no nice gesture is fine. A compliment comes – wonderful; no compliment comes – wonderful too. A loving hug appears – great. No hugs for a while – it’s great also.

 

Once we have learned to find the treasure chest within; there is no fear of loosing anything without. We are fulfilled with others and without others. We are satisfied with the dark and with the light. We welcome rain as well as sunshine. We get to be free to love, and we rejoice in our own company fully and totally, with no limitations.

 

Julia Mikk
www.breathoflove.org
Shamanic Breath of Love Journeys.
Inner transformation beyond anything you have ever experienced.

 

Julia Mikk from Estonia, is a qualified breathworker certified by One Sky International Life Skills and Healing Arts Institute and Rebirthing Breathwork International. Her powerful approach to breathwork reflects her deep opening through the teachings of Gangaji, and trainings with many breathwork pioneers including the founder of Rebirthing, Leonard Orr. In her ?Breath of Love? practice Julia is teaching breathing as a powerful tool for health, growth and change. Together with her powerful intuitive presence, sessions with her evoke the experience of one?s true nature, bliss, and inherent limitless potential.

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